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Why Job Reviews Are Still Critical . . . But Be Sure to Do them Right!

It is very important for you to assure that the people in your organization understand your expectations and your opinions about how they are doing. The most effective way to communicate that information is to conduct regular reviews throughout your organization.

I do not have firm data to back this up, but I believe that regular reviews are strictly used in Fortune 500 businesses – the kind of organizations that have big HR departments – while reviews are not regularly given in smaller companies.

How are you doing in this regard? If you are not using regular reviews, you could be causing more problems with your team members than you realize. Why? One reason is that, in my opinion, people tend to believe the worst, not the best, if they are kept in the dark about your evaluation of them.

Two ways to conduct reviews . . .

Two-part reviews, in which the manager and the employee each fill out a review form, then meet to compare and discuss their comments. I have observed that when the people who will be reviewed write down self-evaluations ahead of the review session, they do not hesitate to be critical of themselves. They tend to bring up areas that you as a manager wanted to talk about, and when you then explore those topics, your review is less harsh; After all, you are exploring topics that the employees brought up themselves.

360° reviews, in which each employee is reviewed not only him or herself and a supervisor, but by a group of people with whom he or she interacts on the job. My preferred way of conducting these reviews is to have people submit their evaluations of the team member who will be reviewed, then to sort the comments into categories on one master form. That prevents the employee under evaluation from trying to guess the identity of his or her evaluators. And 360° reviews can be very effective. If an employee sees that a number of people are focusing on an area that needs improvement, those comments will be more credible than those that came from one supervisor.

Some insights from a sample 360° review . . .

To show you how revealing and motivating a 360° review can be, I would like to share some of the comments that I have gotten about my own strengths and areas for improvement when I was the subject of one of them.

“As a leader, Evan is first-rate. He is respectful of people and solicits opinions. He also does a good job of keeping management in the loop on high-level strategic thinking and direction.”

“Evan is a strong leader with a vision. He manages different people differently according to their personalities and needs. He is very responsive to staff and to members. He is very good about communicating and sharing what’s going on with staff and members. He is a very hands-on manager. He is also a very inclusive manager and one who wants to get both staff and membership more involved (e.g. many councils, monthly staff meetings).”

“Evan wants to drive the car and will not take a back seat to anyone. He can be very demanding and can dominate a meeting when he feels he is right. Because he has the confidence and the experience of running a large division, he has earned the respect and the right to take control when he feels the company is straying. He has a great ability to stay on topic and to keep others focused. He is learning how to ask more questions to let others get to the right answers instead of trying to manipulate issues toward what he feels is the right path. If I were going to war, I would want Evan as a General.”

“Spend more time communicating upfront. This was done very well with the five-year plan, but it could be extended further. Also, I believe Evan is one of the most compassionate leaders that I have met, but this does not always come across with members and some staff members. It would be helpful if he would take the time to explain things with a little more clarity.”

So as you can see, 360° reviews communicate a depth of information that can be eye-opening. I know that I have used comments like those to discover areas where I need to devote attention to my own interpersonal and management development. I believe that these reviews can energize your staff members too, and encourage the process of consistent improvement.

Add a plan to take reviews one step further . . .

Reviews are more than scorecards. They provide an opportunity to build a plan with each employee. What are the key things that this person should be doing in the next year, for example? What is he or she doing well that can be built upon? What is a weakness to address in the next 12 months? When you agree together on such goals, set check-in points, and incorporate them in a training and growth plan, you can turn regular reviews from demotivating routines into exciting action plans for learning and growth.

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3 Parenting Shifts to Support Your Teen’s Individuation

Does your teen suddenly want nothing to do with you? 

 

Are you wondering why your sweet child who once made you rub their back every night until they fell asleep now barely even wants to be seen with you? There’s a scientific reason behind this sudden shift: a complex process known as individuation.

 

It’s Not You, It’s Individuation

 

According to physician and psychiatrist Margaret Mahler, a child’s life begins in a symbiotic relationship with their primary caregiver before they eventually realize their separateness and form an autonomous identity.

 

This process is called “individuation,” and the sudden transition that occurs can result in classic adolescent behavior: a need for space, an increased awareness of their peers, and volatile emotions. Sound familiar? 

 

As difficult as it is for parents to feel their children drifting away, I want to encourage you not to take it personally. (I know, easier said than done!) Your child is going through a perfectly natural development in their lives—and it’s critical to give them the support they need so they can grow to be an autonomous and well-adjusted adult. 

 

How can we help our children (and ourselves!) through this new phase of development?

 

What your child needs at age 7 will no longer apply for this stage in life. As our kids transition into adolescence and adulthood, we must make adjustments to our parenting, too.

Three Parenting Shifts to Support Your Teen’s Individuation

 

Transition from “manager” to “consultant.”

 

As caregivers, we’re used to doing everything for our kids: feeding them, bathing them, tucking them in at night, and all things in between. 

 

Now that your kid is a teenager, it’s time to step back from your managerial role. Your teen needs to learn how to manage their own life—so let them. 

 

Fostering healthy autonomy involves giving your teen the space to make their own decisions, even if that means they dye their hair blue or pick a college far from home. 

 

Of course, stepping back as a parent isn’t about becoming permissive or detached; it’s about taking on more of a consultancy role than a managerial role. The tradeoff when we let go of “power over” is that we gain influence.

 

Rather than giving directions, provide opinions or suggestions. Ask your teen questions instead of telling them what to do. Let them know that you’re there to guide them as they walk their own path.


Encourage their curiosity about what’s fair and right.

 

Kids of all ages are deeply concerned with fairness. Just think about how many times you’ve heard your child shout, “It’s not fair!” over the years.

 

Why not put a positive spin on this preoccupation and encourage your teen to explore fairness and justice on a wider scale?

 

Talk to them about world issues like gender inequality and systemic racism. Understanding bigger concepts of fairness and unfairness will help them determine what’s fair and right in micro settings like school, friend groups, and even at home.


Lean into the hard conversations.

 

Talking to your kid about topics like religion, politics, drugs, or sex can be uncomfortable—but these are the conversations you need to be having! Accept the discomfort and power through. 

 

If, for example, you’re watching a movie and a controversial theme pops up, don’t just clear your throat and dismiss it. Encourage conversation, listen to what your teen has to say, and share your own opinion. Let them know you’re their safe space for addressing challenging topics head on. 

 

A child’s shift into adolescence and adulthood can be a tumultuous time. But if we commit to growing with them and shifting our parenting approach, we can help make this transition as smooth and manageable as possible.

 

Love and Blessings,

Katherine

P.S. Want to learn more about my Guidance Approach to Parenting? Reach out today and join the Conscious Parenting Revolution!

 

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“To Win You Must Know How To Avoid Disaster In Negotiations” – Negotiation Insight

“Disasters shield opportunities. Thus, without disasters, some opportunities would never reveal themselves.” -Greg Williams, The Master Negotiator & Body Language Expert (click to Tweet)  Click here to get the book!

 

“To Win You Must Know How To Avoid Disaster In Negotiations”

People don’t realize they’re always negotiating.

Just when he thought he would close the deal, a disaster occurred. He had had a foreboding feeling that instead of happiness being abounded, tragedy was about to befall him. In reflecting upon what had happened in the negotiations, he wondered what he might have done to avoid disaster, the creeping, sickening feeling he sensed had closed in on him.

Has that ever happened to you? Right when you thought you had a winning negotiation in the bag, disaster snatched victory from you and replaced it with defeat. Well, in the future, you can avoid disaster by casting its dastardly deeds away from your negotiations. And here is how to do that.

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Remember, you’re always negotiating!

 

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After reading this article, what are you thinking? I’d like to know. Reach me at Greg@TheMasterNegotiator.com

 

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“This Is How Video Negotiations Can Make You A Good Negotiator” – Negotiation Tip of the Week

“Seeing leads to believing. But in video negotiations, you can’t always trust what you see.” -Greg Williams, The Master Negotiator & Body Language Expert (click to Tweet)    Click here to get the book!

 

“This Is How Video Negotiations Can Make You A Good Negotiator”

People don’t realize they’re always negotiating.

As she thought about the upcoming negotiations, she wondered how it might be different. This time, she would be negotiating via video. Because of that, she knew it would not be the same as if she was dealing face-to-face. And that made her feel somewhat apprehensive.

How do you handle video negotiations? You do realize, when you are video conferencing with someone, even if you do not consider yourself to be negotiating, you are conveying insights about yourself. You are doing so by exchanging information about your thoughts and actions. And that insight can be used later when you are officially negotiating.

Per what follows, video negotiations also encompasses online dialogs. Therefore, if you would like to know how you can become a better negotiator, as the result of doing it via video, here is how to accomplish that. First, consider:

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“Negotiations – Integrative Versus Distributive – The Value Of Its Benefits” – Negotiation Tip of the Week

“In negotiations, the spoils go to the victor. Or is it, the victor is spoiled. The negotiation style used determines that.” -Greg Williams, The Master Negotiator & Body Language Expert (click to Tweet) 

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“Negotiations – Integrative Versus Distributive – The Value Of Its Benefits”

People don’t realize they’re always negotiating.

A good negotiator must contemplate his counterpart’s most minor negotiation position. And, he must do so while considering that person’s generalities related to his wants from the negotiation. He must do so by reflecting on the past and looking forward at the same time. That can become the paradox of integrative and distributive bargaining. And, there is value in both. Because the two can become interwoven in a negotiation.

After acquiring the following information, you will understand the difference between integrative versus distributive negotiations. And you will know when to use either strategy to advance your negotiation efforts.

 

To discover the benefits and drawbacks of either, click now to continue!

 

Remember, you’re always negotiating!

 

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“Seven Important Factors That Makes You A More Powerful Negotiator” – Negotiation Insight

“Either you control factors controlling your life, or unwanted destinations will await you.” -Greg Williams, The Master Negotiator & Body Language Expert (click to Tweet)  

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“Seven Important Factors That Makes You A More Powerful Negotiator”

People don’t realize they’re always negotiating.

Some negotiators try never to become powerful because they lack the basic knowledge of achieving that goal. They haphazardly employ negotiation strategies in the quest to become better. But they miss the essential factors that can set them on that path.

Do you know what that path is? Would you like to know how you can become a more powerful negotiator? It is not difficult. By employing the following factors in your negotiations, your negotiation efforts will become enriched with better outcomes. And the following factors are what will lead you there.

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Remember, you’re always negotiating!

 

Remember, you’re always negotiating!

 

Listen to Greg’s podcast at https://c-suitenetwork.com/radio/shows/greg-williams-the-master-negotiator-and-body-language-expert-podcast/

 

After reading this article, what are you thinking? I’d like to know. Reach me at Greg@TheMasterNegotiator.com

 

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“How To Win More Negotiations By Reading Body Language” – Negotiation Tip of the Week

“When truth becomes your enemy, you become disadvantaged. Reading body language will help you uncover hidden truths.” -Greg Williams, The Master Negotiator & Body Language Expert (click to Tweet)   Click here to get the book!

“How To Win More Negotiations By Reading Body Language”

People don’t realize they’re always negotiating.

Do you miss negotiation signals due to your failure to read body language accurately? Someone’s spoken words may suggest one thing, while their body language gestures may indicate something else. And the body language of “something else” is what should capture your attention. That is because those signals are essential to the negotiation process and your success in it.

Some people are excellent negotiators. And others are so-so negotiators. The difference between the negotiators that have reached a heightened ability and so-so negotiators is, the excellent ones observe the nonverbal signals emitted during negotiations. The so-so negotiators miss those signals. They do not realize they can negotiate better by reading body language.

Where do you reside between those two posts in your negotiations? Would you like to increase your negotiation skills by being able to read body language more accurately?

Continue, and you will discover how to read body language to increase your negotiation abilities. And by doing that, you will also improve your negotiation efforts.

 

Remember, you’re always negotiating!

 

Listen to Greg’s podcast at https://c-suitenetwork.com/radio/shows/greg-williams-the-master-negotiator-and-body-language-expert-podcast/

 

After reading this article, what are you thinking? I’d like to know. Reach me at Greg@TheMasterNegotiator.com

 

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“Why Using Manipulation Right Will Make You A Better Negotiator” – Negotiation Insight

“Manipulation should be assessed by an outcome. Not on the perception of the word.” -Greg Williams, The Master Negotiator & Body Language Expert (click to Tweet)     Click here to get the book!

 

 “Why Using Manipulation Right Will Make You A Better Negotiator”

 

People don’t realize they’re always negotiating.

Suppose I told you that you have just been the victim of manipulation. How do you feel? Let us further suppose someone whispered those words in your ear while you were negotiating. Might you become more incensed?

Here is the point. At different times during our daily activities, we are more or less open to someone manipulating us. At first, you may find that repulsive. But in some situations, we want others to manage or enhance our emotional thought process, which stems from being manipulated. And it is during those times as a negotiator that you can use manipulation to advantage your position.

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Remember, you’re always negotiating!

 

Listen to Greg’s podcast at https://c-suitenetwork.com/radio/shows/greg-williams-the-master-negotiator-and-body-language-expert-podcast/

 

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“How To Possess A Strong Mind When Negotiating” – Negotiation Tip of the Week

“The perception of strength resides in the perception of a strong mind.” -Greg Williams, The Master Negotiator & Body Language Expert (click to Tweet)  Click here to get the book!

 

“How To Possess A Strong Mind When Negotiating”

People do not realize they are always negotiating.

I cannot recall the last time I was negotiating with someone that caved to our every request. Yep. That negotiator made one concession after another. I wanted to continue the negotiation to see how much we could get from him. Yeah, he projected a weak position from the moment the negotiation began. He lacked a strong mind, along with his soft negotiation skills.

Those were the comments of two members from the same negotiation team. They recalled the occurrences of a person with whom they had been negotiating

and mocking him for not being of strong mind. Are you aware of the last time someone ridiculed you for not possessing good negotiating skills? Did they think you were not strong-minded when it came to your will and negotiation skills? A negotiator’s weak mind is his foe and his opponent’s ally when negotiating.

The following is how you can project a more robust persona, along with a strong mind in your negotiations. Having this skill will increase your negotiation outcomes for the rest of your life.

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Remember, you’re always negotiating!

 

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“What Hidden Value Is There In Being A Better Negotiator” – Negotiation Insight

“To increase value’s perception, become a better negotiator.” -Greg Williams, The Master Negotiator & Body Language Expert (click to Tweet)       Click here to get the book!

 

“What Hidden Value Is There In Being A Better Negotiator”

People do not realize they are always negotiating.

My negotiation skills are not bad. I know I could become a better negotiator. But I do not see the hidden value in being a better negotiator. Is there one?

That was part of a conversation one friend had with another. The friend had asked about the importance of enhancing his negotiation skills and whether there were benefits to becoming a better negotiator.

Do you know the value of becoming a better negotiator? Do you know what you need to do to become one? Continue, and you will receive information that will help you negotiate better in every aspect of your life. And, you will also uncover information about why you need to become a better negotiator. You will also discover how to use your enhanced skills to enrich all aspects of your life.

You are standing at the door of lifelong knowledge. Click here to enter!

Remember, you’re always negotiating!

Listen to Greg’s podcast at https://c-suitenetwork.com/radio/shows/greg-williams-the-master-negotiator-and-body-language-expert-podcast/

 

After reading this article, what are you thinking? I’d like to know. Reach me at Greg@TheMasterNegotiator.com

 

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