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Pay, Stay, and Refer

Pay, Stay, and Refer

This is one of my favorite topics because it is the heart and soul of Magnetic Marketing!

It’s relatively simple. You want your customers, clients, donors, and/or sponsors to do this. You want them to pay for the benefit of supporting your mission. You want them to stay with you and continue to fund your programs for as long as possible. And you certainly want them to refer others to you.

Well, it’s easy to say, not so easy to do. Let’s break it down into bite-sized pieces.

Pay It starts with identifying your ideal prospect so that you don’t end up shouting “GIVE ME MONEY” all the time to a public already bombarded by nearly 1500 messages daily. They’re deaf to it. By messaging only those that will resonate with you, you must be very specific about whom you are targeting. Think of it like this. Say you’re a coach for speakers, and you target speakers nationwide.

We know there are +/- 3500 registered speakers in the National Speakers Association, but that’s just a tiny fraction of those in the game. As a guess for this example, let’s say there are 35,000 speakers in your market (probably more like 350,000).

This process I refer to as external marketing because you are seeking donors, sponsors, customers, or clients from outside your organization. Get it?

If your message is crafted so well and your offer is beautiful, you’ll only resonate with 2% at most. Why? Because only a tiny fraction of them might be ready for your message now. 35,000 speakers aren’t hanging around the email inbox hoping to get an invitation from you. None of them are. But you might catch the attention of a fragment of them with your well-written copy, or your heavily practiced pitch.

Then what?

You have to nurture those who raise their hand to signify they have some interest. It’s a dating ritual. You caught their attention, now you have to romance them a little and build a relationship. If you do everything right, they might pony up with your fee and dance. That’s the easy part. The fun is just getting started.

You’re successful enough to receive funding for your services, but for how long? If you only have one pitch, one service, what happens once you’ve delivered it? Best to have more than just a lead magnet and a tripwire to capture them as a client. Your main mission (or even operating capital) is what you’ve sold them on, but what else can you offer to keep them engaged and interested in supporting you further?

Stay This is the point when your marketing switches from external to internal. You’ll be doing a lot of marketing to your public, your donors and sponsors to keep them interested in you and what you offer for as long as possible.

Believe it or not, there is a formula to calculate donor lifetime value. This is the number you want to continue to grow, and it will as long as you retain the donor or sponsor and said funding sources continue to support your missions. That means you are going to make certain you treat them you treat them like the Kings and Queens they are.

It’s similar to the private club industry, where I spent a lifetime. Kings and Queens, Princes and Princesses. These folks enjoy being called by name and are never weary of embellishing them with accolades and publicity. They also crave gratitude.

Could you keep them informed of the successes their funded project is experiencing? No one appreciates being treated like little more than a checkbook.

Sure, there are many checkbook philanthropists, but they should be something other than your primary focus. Please pay close attention to those that have agreed to invest their time, talents, and treasure (along with their reputations) into your organization.

As I mentioned, at my last club before leaving the business, we knew we had $ 4 million a year coming in before we opened the doors. As long as we paid attention to them, kept them active in the offerings, and included them in our messaging, they would stay with us.

Refer This is the big payoff. This is what you’ve been working so hard for. If you’ve done your job by creating happy and satisfied donors and sponsors, you should encourage them to refer their friends, work associates, and church friends to your cause.

Consider the facts. You’ve worked hard and spent resources acquiring and nurturing your donor base, so any new referrals cost you bupkis. You are literally being handed a gift on a silver platter when someone refers a new donor or sponsor. Your precious funds remain

they are safely tucked away in your bank account.

And, these new donors and sponsors will be easier to work with because they act on the relationship their referee has already established. They will get more involved sooner because trust-by-proxy works in your favor.

Donor Lifetime Value Formula

Earlier in this article I mentioned Lifetime Value of a Donor or Sponsor. This should be part of your overall metrics of evaluation on whether or not you are successful managing your most important assets – donors and sponsors.

David James Dunworth
David James Dunworthhttps://influence-magazine.today
David J Dunworth 1749 S Highland Avenue Unit C2  Clearwater Florida 33756 davidjdunworth@gmail.com    312.590.2142    david@synervisionleadership.org BIOGRAPHY David is the Founder and Chief Experiences Officer of Marketing Mastery VIP Club (formerly Marketing Partners), a Direct Response Marketing Advisory Services firm with 33 years experiencee in serving entrepreneurs, dental and medical professionals, nonprofit organizations, and NGOs. In February 2020, at the onset of COVID-19D 19 pandemic, he was bedridden for ten weeks. As a result, Dunworth gave up his lucrative marketing agency and dedicated his life as a pro bono servant leader for NGOs, Foundations, nonprofits and ministries. His leadership and dedication to serving others above himself are reflected in his service to nonprofits like TAG4Change Uganda, SynerVision Leadership Foundation’s Board Chair, Board member of Peaces of Me Foundation, Equp Our Kida, Kings Counsel & Trust Family Office Ministry, and others. INTERNATIONAL SPEAKER AND AUTHOR Having lived and worked in more than seven countries, achieving international acclaim and prestige did not take much more than daily devotion to his expertise. An internationally known Best-Selling Author of 6 books, having shared the international stage with industry experts Berny Dohrmann, Dan Kennedy, Bert Oliva, Gerry Foster, Les Brown, and many others. PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE Dunworth’s most impressive post-military position was as COO/General Manager of a mamouth private club owned by Ford Motor Company. Under supervision by the Chairman of the Board of Ford Land (the real estate arm of FMC), Dunworth managed to completely reverse the 15-year annual loss in excess of $1.5 Million to a net profit of $1.2 Million in less than four years, accomplishing this through comprehensive marketing and advertising of its public banquet and conference facility, and growing the membership from 3100 families to 3700 families within that time frame. Dunworth served two masters, so to speak. Fairlane Club and Manor was the largest property managed by ClubCorp. They held 250 clubs worldwide. By meeting with the Chairman of the Board of Ford Land, Wayne Doran, monthly, Dunworth produced the highest revenues in the company, solidified the failing relationship between ClubCorp and Ford, and was generously compensated for his bulldog tenacity and unfailing “never give up” philosophy. EDUCATION David’s formal education is a gathering of mixed blessings. He attended Wilson College, Madonna University, and King’s College London and has taken a myriad of online courses and certification training. He is a Certified Magnetic Marketing Advisor, Certified Club Manager, Licensed Mortgage Broker, Accredited Associate of the Institute of International Business, and Life Member of the Oxford Club.  His 10,000 hours plus in Life’s University is perhaps his greatest source of experience and wisdom that no brick and mortar could ever provide. The bulk of his REAL education came through the trenches, advising and coaching in more than 40 industries and business sectors as either a consultant, marketing advisor, HR professional, or strategic planning mentor. INTERESTS and PERSONAL David Dunworth enjoys scuba diving, studying fine wines, is an amateur Chef, and is a voracious reader. The grandfather of 4 delightful little people and father of two extremely bright children that live in Ohio and Virginia. When not reading, cooking, or rescuing a glass of fine Cabernet Sauvignon from evaporation, David is writing topics ranging from Christian Studies and Bible Understanding to Business Leadership and Marketing. Dunworth is a proud member of the C-Suite Network Thought Council. If known by the company one keeps, David J Dunworth’s connections, friends, and influence place him at the pinnacle of subject matter experts in several fields.
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