Parenting with Impact

Do you struggle with getting your child to do things? Does it feel like no matter what you do, it is a struggle to motivation your child to ____. We can fill that blank with countless things: homework, clean their room, exercise, chores, be on time… Well, you may be surprised to learn that traditional motivation tactics often backfire. Elaine and Diane have a dynamic way to help your child with the P.I.N.C.H. method.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the truths and myths around motivation and what it really takes to get your child invested in doing something.

Motivation Guide

In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• What is the role of motivation in getting things done?
• When it looks like your kid lacks motivation, what is really happening?
• If your child does not have internal motivation, it does not mean a lack of moral values.
• What are the 5 motivators in P.I.N.C.H., and how can they be applied?

Related Links

• Are You Getting Stuck in Information Land?
• Effective Agreements  
• Interview with Radio Host, Jeff Copper, on Parenting & ADHD
• What Kids Think Parents Should Know About ADHD & Motivation
• Lessons for Kids from the Olympics: Hyper-Focus, Motivation & Passion
• ADHD Behavior Management – Is It All About Teaching Motivation?
• There are Only 5 Motivators for People with ADHD
• How do I Motivate my Child to Turn in Homework?
• How do I Motivate My Child to do…Anything!?
• Getting Unstuck: It Depends on your Point of View

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• www.impactparents.com
• Instagram: @impactparents
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Just when Jennifer Gay Summers thought she had it all figured out, her world was turned upside down. Her child, Lee, was diagnosed with ADHD and other learning disabilities, shattering her expectations of traditional parenting. But instead of giving up, Jennifer dove headfirst into researching and advocating for her child’s needs. She discovered the importance of meeting her child where they are, rather than forcing them to conform to societal norms. What resulted was a journey of growth and resilience.

Jennifer Gay Summers is a dedicated mother and former teacher who journeyed through her child’s unique learning needs from a young age. As her child struggled with ADHD, sensory processing disorder, and anxiety, Jennifer decided it was time to let go of traditional expectations and meet her child where they were. Her perseverance in finding the right support for her child, coupled with her advocacy skills, has helped countless parents like her embrace and navigate the complexities of raising children with diverse needs.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Jennifer Gay Summers about making the shift form traditional parenting to the journey of parenting the child she has and meeting them where they are.

Ten Self Care Tips for Parents

Do you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips — but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Discover the intricacies of raising a child with ADHD and other disabilities.
• Learn the value of self-education and advocacy when supporting a child with unique needs.
• Explore the art of releasing traditional expectations and embracing a more personalized approach.
• Delve into coping with grief and celebrating the unique attributes of one’s child.
• Uncover the power of memoir writing in sharing experiences and raising awareness.

Connect with Jennifer:

• Website 
• Facebook 
• Instagram  
• Article

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Andrea Pollack’s life took an unexpected turn when her two-year-old son was diagnosed with autism. It was a heartbreaking moment that forced her to leave her promising legal career behind. But little did she know that this decision would eventually lead her to become a renowned parenting coach, helping other parents navigate the challenges of raising neurodivergent children. Her approach is unique, focusing on personal growth and self-reflection for parents, which ultimately benefits the entire family. Join us as we explore Andrea’s fascinating journey and learn how she’s helping parents create more fulfilling parenting experiences for themselves and their neurodivergent children.

Andrea Pollack is a dedicated and compassionate advocate for parents navigating the complex world of raising neurodivergent children. With over two decades of personal experience as a mother to an autistic son, she understands the unique challenges and triumphs of parenting children with different needs. Having left her career as a practicing attorney to homeschool her son, Andrea realized her true calling was to empower and support other parents. Committed to a holistic approach, she combines her educational background with valuable coaching techniques to help families thrive through personalized, problem-solving strategies.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Andrea Pollack about discovering the key to helping your complex kid- YOU!

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the “Parenting is Leadership” Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting… and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Shift your perspective by understanding the value of focusing on your child’s capabilities.
• Decipher the hidden motives behind challenging behaviors exhibited by children with autism.
• Embrace essential self-care practices for parents to ensure balance and optimal support.

Related Links:

• A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?  
• The Coach-Approach to Parenting
• Recommended Treatment

Connect with Andrea:

• autismparentsolutions.com
• Facebook

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• Instagram @impactparents
• Facebook @impactparent
• LinkedIn @impactparents
• Twitter @impactparents

In the vast sea of information, it is easy to get stuck in the land of information. Oftentimes, we begin to apply this new knowledge, but get held up in the details and end up getting stuck with information that we cannot implement, leaving us where we started.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss how to go beyond learning strategies and tools, and get into implementation and customization for your kid and your needs.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the “Parenting is Leadership” Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting… and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Transformation requires information, integration, implementation; you cannot simply stop at information.
• It is important to understand repetition and improvisation when implementing ideas for change.
• Strategies alone are not always enough, especially if they are not used in an effective context.
• What are the “magic 3 questions” to ask yourself if you don’t think a strategy is working?

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Related Links:

• Is Coaching For You?
• The Coach Approach to Parenting
• What To Look for in a Behavior Therapy Program for ADHD
• Recommended Treatment
• What is Behavior Therapy for ADHD? (Part 1)
• What To Look for in a Behavior Therapy Program for ADHD

Connect with Elaine & Diane:

• Instagram @impactparents
• Facebook @impactparent
• LinkedIn @impactparents
• Twitter  @impactparents

If you’re feeling frustrated and helpless as you watch your child (or yourself) struggle with ADHD symptoms, despite trying various interventions and treatments, then you are not alone! Many parents and healthcare professionals have faced the challenge of medical bias, which has hindered accurate diagnosis and effective treatment of ADHD for far too long.

In 2020, Kelly accidentally discovered she had ADHD at the age of 48. This revelation was absolutely life-changing. Since then, Kelly has dedicated her life to learning about ADHD. She is extremely passionate about spreading awareness and empathy for ADHD in general, but in women and girls in particular. She understands how much harder it is for females to find a knowledgeable and compassionate provider.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Kelly Pickens about the history of a smear campaign against ADHD, how much progress the ADHD has made, and how much farther there is to go. AND, how you can better attain effective treatment!

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Examine the history of bias against the diagnosis and treatment of ADHD within the healthcare system.
• Investigate the fascinating roots of ADHD and its (lack of) acceptance as a mental health disorder.
• Gain insights into how ADHD interacts with other health challenges and its effect on longevity. 

Related Links:

• Adverse Health Outcomes  article by Dr. Russell Barkley
• Article on ADHD Lawsuits
• Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder: A Handbook for Diagnosis and Treatment By Dr. Russell Barkley

Connect with Kelly:

• www.uaadhd.com
• Facebook

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• Instagram @impactparents
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If you are feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and exhausted because your current parenting strategies are not improving your relationship with your complex child, then you are not alone!

This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Ellen joins us on today’s podcast to share her story of navigating the challenges of raising a complex child. Having weathered the storms of parenting and feeling unprepared for the challenges that come with a complex kid, she eventually found her guide in the community-driven support system of ImpactParents.

Ellen and her husband are parents of a creative and curious 16-year-old son who was assessed and diagnosed with ADHD when he was in Middle School. Ellen began to realize that as academic demands increased, so did her son’s reaction to them. She became really curious about what was behind his behavior. 

Through her involvement in several Impact Parents programs with Elaine and Diane, Ellen now clearly understands the value of engaging in parent coaching. She arrived feeling exhausted, confused, and frustrated. She has grown over the past few years after a lot of hard work and truly appreciates all that Impact Parents provide: compassion, support and community, and the continued sharing of knowledge and scientific findings. 

Listen to this inspiring Success Stories Edition of Parenting With Impact episode with Ellen about turning to community for support in parenting a complex child. 

Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet

So — your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: 

What is recommended treatment for children and teens:

• Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication 
• Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point — don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. 
• ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Unlock wisdom to navigate the high seas of parenting complex children towards victorious outcomes.
• Learn how reshaping expectations can positively influence your parenting style for complex children.
• Uncover the potent impact of community support to uplift parents of complex children.
• Unbox the potentials of the coach approach for an enriching parenting experience with complex children.
• Grasp the significance of self-care, adaptability, and introspection in molding the life of your complex child.

Related Links:

• Talking to Kids About Their Neurodiverse Brains  with Dr. Liz Angoff
• Don’t Panic! Your Kid’s Not Broken  with Debbie Reber
• Differently Wired  by Debbie Reber
• Executive Function Skills: What Every Parent Needs to Know  with Seth Perler

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• Instagram @impactparents
• Facebook @impactparent
• LinkedIn @impactparents
• Twitter @impactparents

Do you want to create a more harmonious and peaceful atmosphere within your family? Are you looking for a solution to improve conflict resolution and achieve better relationships with your loved ones?

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they share the key to fostering improved dynamics and creating a more united and supportive family unit

Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet

So — your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: 

What is recommended treatment for children and teens: 

• Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication 
• Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point — don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. 
• ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Navigate your way through family conflict resolution techniques.
• Unpack methods for helping children preserve ties with both parents.
• Absorb strategies for staying impartial and empathetic during family disputes.
• Unravel the process to bypass the savior or defender role in family fights.
• Unearth pivotal ways to boost considerate communication and mutual understanding among family members.

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Related Links:

• Register for the 2023 ADHD Parents’ Palooza!  
• The 4 Sources of Conflict in Your Family Part 1
• The 4 Sources of Conflict in your Family Pt 2  
• Effective Agreements  
• Relationships by Design  

Connect with Elaine & Diane:

• Instagram @impactparents
• Facebook @impactparent
• LinkedIn @impactparents
• Twitter @impactparents

Bullying can be one of the most heart-rending challenges a parent faces. When your child is neurodiverse, that can make life downright miserable for both your child and your family.

Kayla Taylor is a best-selling writer, researcher, advocate, and parent. She recently published “Canaries Among Us,” an important exposé that blends poignant storytelling and groundbreaking scientific research to empower those caring for the millions of kids challenged by learning differences, bullying, and anxiety. This heartrending chronicle tackles harmful stigmas while documenting the joy and heartache inherent in raising children who don’t fit society’s definition of “normal.”

Listen to this gripping Parenting With Impact episode with Kayla Taylor about her family’s journey through the challenges of bullying, learning differences, and anxiety.

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Validating and nurturing self-esteem of neurodiverse children.
• Institutional betrayal of children and families navigating complex challenges.
• Parental involvement in mitigating bullying and advocating for neurodiverse individuals.

Related Links:

• How To Have Hard Conversations with Other Parents
• 4 Ways to Teach Your Child to Stand Up To Bullying
• Bullying and the ADHD Child
• 8 Reasons You’ll Never Know Your Child is Being Bullied  
• Model Self Respect for Your Kids: Tame the Bully Within

Connect with Kayla:

• KaylaTaylorWrites.com
• Canaries Among Us  
• Resources for Parents  
• Instagram

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• www.impactparents.com
• Instagram: @impactparents
• Facebook: @impactparent
• LinkedIn:@impactparents
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Highly sensitive children can express themselves with very strong emotions that can leave parents feeling rattled and desperate. Randi’s experience with her son took her on a journey of acceptance and unconditional love.

Randi Rubenstein coaches parents raising strong willed kids. Randi searched endlessly to find the magical resource that would help her own highly sensitive, strong-willed child. (He’s now 25, healthy and happy-ish:). She’s been passionate about helping other “cycle-breaker” parents like herself for almost two decades.

Randi’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the long standing Mastermind Parenting podcast and author of The Parent Gap. 

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Randi Rubenstein about the emotional rollercoaster of parenting a highly sensitive child.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the “Parenting is Leadership” Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting… and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Practical approaches for managing emotions and establishing a healthy family life.
• Active listening and validation helps nurture secure attachments with your little ones.
• Strategies for guiding your children without controlling or remedying their behavior.

Related Links:

• The Highly Sensitive Child: Helping Our Children Thrive When the World Overwhelms Them by Elaine N. Aron
• Calm The Chaos: The Benefits of Practicing Mindfulness
• Don’t Take It Personally: 4 Questions to Coach Yourself

Connect with Randi:

• Mastermind Parenting
• Mastermind Parenting Podcast
• Instagram
• Facebook
• LinkedIn

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• www.impactparents.com
• Instagram: @impactparents
• Facebook: @impactparent
• LinkedIn:@impactparents
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Implementing appropriate treatment for ADHD not only improves focus and cognitive function but also diminishes the likelihood of developing addiction.

Chris Foster is an Education Specialsit in Neurodivergence, Social Emotional Learning, and College Career Readiness. She Has a Doctorate in Educational Psychology from Wichita State University, Kansas. Chris has collaborated with community colleges to promote college readiness, developed curriculum, and specializes in social emotional learning strategies. She also in a diversity and inclusion specialist with extensive research in neurodivergencies in both children and adults.

Jeremy Didier, LMSW, LMAC, PCAC is the group founder and co-coordinator of Kansas City’s award winning CHADD Chapter, ADHDKC. She currently serves on the CHADD National Board of Directors and on the CHADD Chapter Advisory Board. Jeremy works as a mental health clinician at Responsive Centers for Psychology & Learning specializing in the diagnosis of adults with ADHD and executive function skills training. Didier also works for ImpactParents as an ICF/ADDCA certified ADHD parent coach, and she’s a frequent contributor to their internationally recognized blog. She’s had the honor of presenting at multiple local and national conferences on the Under Diagnosis of ADHD in Girls & Women and other challenges facing families with ADHD. Jeremy holds a BS in Journalism from the University of Kansas and recently completed her Master of Social Work at Fordham University. She’s a passionate advocate for at risk youth and individuals living in detention who have ADHD and challenges with addiction. 

Listen to this eye-opening Parenting With Impact episode with Chris Foster and Jeremy Didier about the proper treatment of ADHD and how it can reduce the risk of addiction, and how parents can make informed decisions on managing their kid’s ADHD.

Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet

So — your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: 

• What is recommended treatment for children and teens 
• Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication 
• Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point — don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. 

ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Links between ADHD and addiction, risk minimization and recovery approaches.
• The importance of accurate and prompt ADHD for maximum effectiveness in treatment
• Dismantling common biases regarding ADHD medication and potential addiction.

Links Mentioned:

• SAMSHA
• NAMI
• Alcoholics Anonymous  
• MyRecoveryLink

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• www.impactparents.com
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