An Imperfectly Perfect Life with Shari Leid

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Welcome back to “An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted,” the podcast where personal growth, life’s lessons, and deep connections converge to guide your transformative journey.

Today, we embark on part two of a four-part series designed to reshape your perspective and revitalize your aspirations. As your life coach, I’m here to guide you, especially through the tumultuous phase of divorce. Our series, “Envision a Fuller Life,” began last week with Part One: The You Vision. It was the crucial foundation that set the stage for this week’s episode and the upcoming phases: The Friendship Vision, The World Vision, and The Partner Vision. 

This week, we merge your Friendship Vision with your You Vision in the drafting of your Personal Mission Statement. What’s this Friendship Vision all about? It’s not just about amassing friends like seashells on a beach; it’s about nurturing connections that align with your values, fuel your growth, and remind you that you’re never alone.

Today, we’re diving deep into creating friendships that are more than just quick snacks; they’re like a warm, hearty soup for your soul. We’ll ponder questions like, “Who earns a spot on your dream team of friends?” and “Which hangouts leave you feeling charged up, and which ones have you reaching for that emergency shot of espresso, or maybe even tequila?”

We’ll explore the art of being the kind of friend you wish to have, whether you’re the superhero or the trusty sidekick. And we’ll navigate the dance of investing time and energy because, let’s face it, some of us are ready for a Netflix marathon, while others are all about those quick TikTok laughs.

This exploration paves the way for a richer, more authentic life, laying a sturdy foundation for the subsequent visions we’ll build together.

Join us next week for Part 3: The World Vision, as we continue crafting your fuller life. And don’t forget, exciting news awaits—I’ve just launched a brand-new website and am eager to support your journey in 2024. Let’s make it a pivotal year together! 

Tune in for the next enriching episode of “An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted.” Cherish this week and the introspective journey it brings. 

Homework:

Week 1: The You Vision: Draft the first two sentences of your personal mission statement:

 I, [Your Name], am committed to living a life that reflects my deepest values of [Core Value 1], [Core Value 2], and [Core Value 3]. I understand that my journey is unique and pledge to approach each day with [Quality or Trait 1] and [Quality or Trait 2].

Week 2: The Friendship Vision: Draft the next 3 sentences of your personal mission statement:

In my personal life, I aspire to cultivate and nourish friendships that are rooted in (insert 3 values). I will invest time and energy into activities with friends that contribute positively to my personal growth by supporting me in (this way). My friendship love language, how I receive love from my friends is through (insert example ) and how they receive love from me is through (insert example).

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As Shari Leid, your guide through the twists and turns of a life lived fully, I’m here to tell you about the compass that has steadied my sails during the stormiest of times: a personal mission statement. Join me on a journey of self-discovery where we’ll harness the power of our deepest values to navigate life’s challenges, like my own story of clarity found amidst the chaos of divorce. It’s not just about surviving the squalls but thriving by intentionally crafting your life’s purpose to reflect who you truly are and who you aspire to be. This episode is an open invitation to anchor in the truth of your being and to build your personal mission statement that not only resonates with the core of your spirit but also will become your guiding light.

You’ve stumbled upon a podcast that is about celebrating the beautifully unpredictable nature of life in ‘An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted.’ It’s about embracing the plot twists with laughter, weaving sincerity throughout the chapters, and authoring an extraordinary tale that’s entirely your own. With each tick of the timepiece, we’re gifted an opportunity to pen our joy, our love, and the uniquely splendid narrative of our existence. So, I invite you to join this heartfelt expedition, where we let go of the script and live out loud, crafting every spontaneous moment into a masterpiece of our own design.

Homework for Envision a Fuller Life Series;

Week 1: The You Vision: Draft the first two sentences of your personal mission statement:

 I, [Your Name], am committed to living a life that reflects my deepest values of [Core Value 1], [Core Value 2], and [Core Value 3]. I understand that my journey is unique and pledge to approach each day with [Quality or Trait 1] and [Quality or Trait 2].

Week 2: The Friendship Vision: Draft the next 3 sentences of your personal mission statement:

In my personal life, I aspire to cultivate and nourish friendships that are rooted in (insert 3 values). I will invest time and energy into activities with friends that contribute positively to my personal growth by supporting me in (this way). My friendship love language, how I receive love from my friends is through (insert example ) and how they receive love from me is through (insert example).

Week 3: The World Vision:  Draft the next powerful sentence of your personal mission statement;

In my pursuit of a [Core Value] world, I envision a future where [Desired Change] is not just an ideal, but a reality for all. I am dedicated to fostering [Specific Area of Impact] in my community and beyond, ensuring that every individual has the opportunity to [Specific Benefit or Experience]

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Welcome back to “An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted,” the podcast where we embrace life’s messes and find the beauty in transformation. As your host, I’m walking alongside you through my own journey of ending a 26-year marriage and embarking on a personal renaissance. This podcast is my way of sharing the tools and insights that are guiding me through this metamorphosis, with the hope of easing your path to reinvention. We’re wrapping up our “Envision a Fuller Life” series, where we’ve been crafting personal mission statement to serve as our north stars through life’s upheavals and our daily existence. And, in a twist of fate, today’s episode, focusing on crafting our PARTNER Vision, lands on Valentine’s Day—a serendipitous reminder of the love we’re navigating towards and the growth we’re embracing.

In this final stretch, we’re not just dreaming up an ideal partner; we’re diving deep to ensure our future relationships are not repeats of the past but are built on mutual respect, understanding, and shared dreams. This PARTNER Vision is about recognizing our completeness alone and seeking a partner who enriches our lives, not completes it. It’s about honest introspection into our relationship histories, acknowledging our roles in past patterns, and realizing our power to choose differently. We focus on the essentials: physical attraction, the depth of respect you’d share with a close friend, and the kind of compatibility that makes for an unstoppable team. This journey isn’t about finding a flawless partner but about choosing someone who complements the complete individual you already are. As we conclude this series, I hope you feel empowered to navigate life’s transitions with grace and to craft relationships that add joy, growth, and fulfillment to your life’s narrative.

Envision a Fuller Life series homework – Crafting your personal mission statement:

Week 1: The You Vision: Draft the first two sentences of your personal mission statement:

 I, [Your Name], am committed to living a life that reflects my deepest values of [Core Value 1], [Core Value 2], and [Core Value 3]. I understand that my journey is unique and pledge to approach each day with [Quality or Trait 1] and [Quality or Trait 2].

Week 2: The Friendship Vision: Draft the next 3 sentences of your personal mission statement: 

In my personal life, I aspire to cultivate and nourish friendships that are rooted in (insert 3 values). I will invest time and energy into activities with friends that contribute positively to my personal growth by supporting me in (this way). My friendship love language, how I receive love from my friends is through (insert example ) and how they receive love from me is through (insert example).

Week 3: The World Vision:  Draft the next powerful sentence of your personal mission statement:

In my pursuit of a [Core Value] world, I envision a future where [Desired Change] is not just an ideal, but a reality for all. I am dedicated to fostering [Specific Area of Impact] in my community and beyond, ensuring that every individual has the opportunity to [Specific Benefit or Experience]

Week 4: The Partner Vision: Draft the final portion of your mission statement:

My partner is the perfect mix of  [Qualities of attraction] that is more than just a physical attraction, but a friendship rich in connection with genuine respect and a lot of laughs. Our relationship is anchored in [Qualities of friendship], a true refuge where I can be myself , we share unwavering

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When life threw me a curveball, I caught it with both hands and dared to ask, “What’s next?” Join me, Shari Leid, as we explore the silver linings of life’s toughest moments, from the heartaches of divorce to the hidden opportunities it can reveal. We’ll share a hearty laugh and dish out some real talk on how those imperfect moments are really the ones that shape us. Together, we’re learning to rock our imperfections and discover growth in places we never thought to look.

Embrace the mantra “It’s not happening to me, it’s happening for me,” and let’s navigate through life’s stormiest seas with guts, love, and a wink, because as Shari Leid reminds us, it’s the imperfectly perfect moments that make life truly worth living.

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Ever feel like you’re chasing the white rabbit of balance down a never-ending hole? Join me, Shari Leid as we chuck the traditional pie-chart approach and get real about crafting a life that actually tastes as good as it looks. In this heart-to-heart chat, we’ll break down the Wheel of Life, but with a twist that’s less about scoring life areas and more about savoring them. Discover why a balanced life might not mean what you think and how authenticity and alignment are the secret ingredients.

Get cozy and ready to laugh, learn, and maybe even shed a tear as we talk about the three steps to a life that’s not just evenly sliced, but deliciously fulfilling. Lean in as we lay the roadmap to a 3 week series filled with practical advice on understanding your identity, aligning your actions, and the art of setting boundaries with a side of flexibility. We’re stepping away from the one-size-fits-all approach and instead, embracing the chaos with open arms and an open heart. Prepare to walk away feeling a little lighter and a lot more prepared for whatever life dishes out next.

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In the kickoff episode of our enlightening three-week series, we embark on a transformative journey towards achieving a genuinely balanced life amidst the chaos of daily commitments. This episode delves into the critical first step of this journey: a profound exploration of self-identity. We uncover the often overlooked truth that the path to balance doesn’t involve adding more to our overflowing plates but rather, requires a deep understanding of our inner selves.

Through personal anecdotes and reflective insights, we examine the complexities of answering the seemingly simple question, “Who are you?” beyond the superficial titles and roles we play in society. This episode invites you to embark on an introspective quest to discover your values, passions, and dreams, urging you to see this process as an intimate opportunity to learn about yourself as if you were a new, intriguing friend.

Highlighting the significance of self-discovery in navigating life’s inevitable transitions, such as career shifts or personal losses, we share touching stories that illustrate the stabilizing power of a solid sense of self. The narrative is enriched with a set of daily journaling prompts designed to guide you through a week of self-exploration, encouraging a deep dive into what truly makes you feel alive, confronts your fears, and brings you joy.

This episode is an invitation to embrace the journey of self-awareness as an ongoing adventure, influenced by life’s experiences and relationships. It underscores the importance of dedicating time to truly understand oneself, laying a strong foundation for making decisions that foster a balanced and fulfilling life.

Join us as we step forward on this path to discovering an imperfectly perfect balanced life, highlighting the importance of growth, exploration, and the enduring impact of self-knowledge.

This week’s homework – daily journal prompts:

Thursday: What and who makes me feel most alive?
Friday: Reflect on your greatest setbacks. What unexpected gains did they bring?Saturday: Think about the best job you’ve ever had. What made it so special?
Sunday: Who do you admire the most and why?
Monday: Recall the last time you felt pure joy. Who were you with, and what were you doing?
Tuesday: What would you do if fear wasn’t holding you back?
Wednesday: What do you dislike most about your day-to-day life, and why?

To work one-on-one with Shari, book your free Discovery session via Zoom now! 

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Ever felt like you’re donning a pair of jeans that just doesn’t fit right? That’s the discomfort we tackle in our latest heart-to-heart, where I, Shari Leid, guide you through the essential second step towards crafting a life that’s in perfect harmony with your authentic self. We’re not just talking small tweaks; we’re overhauling your wardrobe of daily actions to ensure they truly represent who you are at your core. It’s about creating a life that fits as perfectly as your favorite pair of jeans – snug in all the right places and giving you the confidence to strut your stuff.

This episode is a cozy blanket for your soul, offering you the tools to align your life’s various facets, from career choices to personal relationships, with your deepest values. We use the concept of the ‘wheel of life’ as our dashboard as we navigate Step 2 of this three week series into the journey towards living a life that feels not just balanced but full of purpose and joy. It’s a cruise down the fast lane towards a life where every aspect resonates with your true identity. So, if you’re ready to shed the overwhelming, stuck feelings and embrace the beautiful mess of living authentically, this is your sign to tune in and transform your life, one impactful shift at a time.

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Embarking on a quest for balance amidst life’s tumultuous waves. This episode wraps up our three-part series on achieving a harmonious life, and trust me, it’s a conversation you won’t want to miss. Expect a blend of laughter and learning as we dissect the art of boundary setting—those that flex without fracturing—ensuring you can face life’s buffet with confidence and poise.

Let’s peel back the layers of what it means to live a life aligned with your true self. We kick things off by flipping the script on traditional notions of balance—it’s not a one-size-fits-all approach, but rather a personalized alignment of actions and identity. I’ll take you through the steps of identifying your non-negotiables and teach you how to craft boundaries that stand firm yet allow growth. If you’re ready to sketch out a roadmap to your imperfectly perfect life, then grab your notepad and let’s navigate this journey together.

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Dive into “An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted,” where host Shari Leid shares her raw and real experiences navigating through life’s major upheavals. From tackling a divorce after 26 years, selling her family home, to the uncertainties of setting new roots, all while parenting young adults and caring for two big dogs, Shari explores the essence of maintaining happiness amidst chaos. This podcast episode lays the groundwork for the upcoming 5-part series which is a heartfelt journey into finding joy and beauty in life’s imperfections, proving that happiness is not about achieving perfection but embracing the messiness of life with open arms.

Throughout this compelling series, Shari offers a real-time insight into her life changes, focusing on critical aspects of happiness such as self-worth, family dynamics, friendships, work, and romantic relationships. “An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted” is more than a story; it’s a conversation about thriving in turbulence and seeing opportunity in chaos. Join Shari as she shares her secrets to living a life filled with happiness, reminding us that happiness is not found in the destination but along the journey of everyday life. 

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Embark on a transformative expedition to the heart of self-worth and its profound impact on our quest for happiness. Channeling the wisdom of Dr. Stan Tatkin’s “Wired for Love,” I recount the intimate voyage from being adrift like a wave to finding my grounding as an anchor, uncovering the undeniable truth that joy is our birthright. In the first chapter of our five-part series, we unravel the tapestry of self-perception, resilience, and the power of adversity, sharing candid tales of personal battles and breakthroughs that spotlight the potency of acknowledging one’s inherent value.

As we chart the course to elevate your self-worth, you’re invited to participate in a curated collection of eight life-affirming strategies. From the art of crafting personal affirmations to the cathartic release of journaling, each step is a celebration of the self. I’ll guide you through setting boundaries with finesse, transforming self-critique into self-cherishing, and cultivating a spirit of gratitude that magnifies your unique gifts. Together, we’ll toast to every victory and engrain the mantra “I am the prize” into the fabric of our lives, steering us toward a radiant future where happiness flourishes, unfettered by the need for external approval.

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